I’m thrilled to have Mayi Carles of Mayi Carles, Heartmade and Life is Messy Bootcamp with us today. Mayi describes herself as A Tiny Artist with a T-Rex Heart and when you see her artwork and watch her videos you’ll know why.

Her blog is chock full of great online business advice, like last week’s “How to Get an 80% Open Rate on Your Newsletter” video and freebies to get you organized.

Her Life is Messy Planners and Bootcamp (bootcamp-style training and beautiful, function planners) are a digital product success story, with more than 5,000 copies sold.

Here’s Mayi…

Tell us about your business. What does Heartmade do and who do you love to serve?

I’m in the business of empowering creative business hearts to break down their barriers to success + turn their passions to profit + make a real difference in the world.

Heartmade is a creative space to spill open your gifts + hopes + fears + epiphanies + worries + questions + more.

Visitors are bound to leave feeling lighter + empowered + most certainly loved.

Your wedding video is great. The day looks like a fairy tale + awesome dance party. How did your creativity show up in planning your day?

I could have never pull that day off alone. My wedding day was the product of a collaborative effort. You can say it was a project made with love by a team of super passionate artists, including yours truly. Even my mom, who is a lawyer had participation. She literally sewed all the party props for the celebration. Isn’t she darling?

To say the least, I feel so honored to have teamed up with the handmade community to craft the wedding of my dreams.

I heard that you used some of your honeymoon money to attend RHH Live, so I know your husband is 100 percent on board with the work you do at Heartmade. How has married life impacted your work?

Oh my! Yes. It was a disaster. What happened was that David + I had saved enough money to go to NY together, but on the morning of our flight, we (and by “we” I really mean “I”) accidentally messed up our departure time + missed our flight. Since we had purchased the tickets with miles, by missing the plane we also lost our entire round trip ticket. Bohoo! With 1 month away from our wedding, I knew it would be irresponsible to repurchase 2 entire airfare tickets from Panama to NY, but my man insisted.

I’m glad that at the end of my weeping tantrum I agreed to use up some of our honeymoon savings to go to RHH LIVE because the trip paid for itself 10 times over.

My husband is my rock. My confidant. The love of my live. The moving force behind everything I do. With him by my side, I feel I can do anything.

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You’ve been creating, drawing, painting since a very young age and have degrees in art, at any point did you feel resistance to making art your business?

Never growing up. I have extremely supportive parents, the kind that bought me lots of crayons + let me paint outside the lines + played music around the house + allowed me to dress up (even if it wasn’t Halloween) + applauded my world domination aspirations + hugged me constantly + signed me up for dance classes + much + much more.

There’s no doubt in my mind, that my parents protection + unconditional love is the #1 reason I’m still here today + I’ve been able to push pass all my adulthood noise + self-inflicted resistance.

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You’ve sold more than 5,000 copies of your first product (Life is Messy). Tell us a little bit about that experience. When did you start to see the full potential of blogging and connecting online?

I still pinch myself when I see the numbers. I think the fact that it was my first digital products + I had no expectations of grandeur helped tremendously. This first offering helped me understand my client – what they really needed from me, not what they say they wanted. It helped me gain capital so I could build over a year time the BEST organizational solution out there. It helped me tighten my niche + refine my mojo. It helped me understand that my success is directly linked to my clients success. And the best part it all is that I get to do it all over again every year, because Life is Messy is a yearly organizational program, so I’m constantly evolving + innovating + pushing by boundaries + that keeps me busy.

I like busy.

You are clearly having fun in your business and being 100% Mayi. What advice do you have for women entrepreneurs who are hesitant to just be themselves?

My advice? My advice is that you don’t need my advice. To find your voice you have to ignore everybody. Take “What will they think?” out of your vocabulary.

You can’t discover yourself if you’re trapped in a compulsion to conform + be liked by everybody.

When I first started video blogging, people thought I was nuts. Some even assumed I was doing heavy drugs. Believe me, it hurt. But at the end of my crying tantrums I always go back to the same question, “What price I’m I willing to pay to not be myself?”. Honestly, it scares me even more to abandon Mayi than to learn to deal with vicious rumors + stiff opposition. Wouldn’t you agree?

Videos are one of the cornerstones of your content. What advice do you have for other women entrepreneurs who are just starting to shoot their own videos?

Oh yes. My Friday Video Time episodes have changed everything for me. Video has allowed me to get more personal + connect on a much deeper level with my readers, with the aid of course of my goofy party props + funky dance moves + insanely practical ninja tricks. I really can’t take all the credit.

For anyone tip toed their way into video blogging, I recommend to leave all inhibitions out the door. Making videos should be fun, both to make + to watch. No one’s going to sit down to watch a boring clip, no matter how amazeballs the content is. So my number uno advice is to turn up the entertainment notch to mega high.

I also suggest to go check out my free Vlogging 101 Video Series at www.heartmadeblog.com.

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You also coach other artistic entrepreneurs. How does it feel to encourage other artist see their full value in the world? How do you feel when you see the progress your one-on-one coaching clients are having with their creative businesses?

It’s better than all the cupcakes in the galaxy. My clients are truly the Energizer batteries to my bunny. Without them, this would just be a lonely “Mayi Carles Show” + that ain’t very fun.

Like Pinky needs Brain, I too need the artist’s who’s lives I’m privileges to touch. I think it all boils down to belonging + knowing that our paths crossed for a reason larger than ourselves.

For me, it makes me feel useful, like I matter, like I have a unique contribution that no one else can give. And I think that’s a pretty good reason to keep at it with all my heart 🙂

Who are some of your favorite artists.

Sweat Bestiary
Merriweather Council
The Angry Weather
Jackie Rueda

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What’s next for you and your business?

I like to keep things a secret until they’re 100% official, so for now I’ll just say: I’m translating my Life is Messy Bootcamp to Spanish (los quiero mis queridisimos lectores hispanos) + building a very special project with my partner in crime April Bowles, for online superstars. Enough said 🙂

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Mayi Carles is a tiny Panamanian artist with a T-Rex heart. She loves party props + wearing her paint stained Eeyore pajamas + if left unsupervised, she could eat an entire batch of Red Velvet cupcakes. Oh + she’s an organizational master, helping more than 5 thousand messy entrepreneurs get more done in record time over at Life is Messy Bootcamp. You can find her at Mayi Carles, Heartmade, as well as on Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.

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I’m thrilled to have Genna McWhinnie with us today to chat about her video production company McTofu Media Services.

I met Genna virtually over a year ago and fell in love with her red lipstick and sassy self-expressive ways. She always makes me laugh out loud with just a Tweet. I’m sure you’ll love her wicked humor, too!

Genna’s new ebook “Shine on Screen: Your Guide to Producing Great Video On Your Own” is chock full of great info to help you get started making videos for your online business.

Here’s Genna…

Tell us about McTofu Media Services what do you do, who do you love to serve and where are you located.

McTofu Media is a video consultation and production company based in sunny London, UK. It evolved out of my life coaching business, started in Sep 2010. Although I loved coaching, it didn’t seem specific enough to both my talents and the needs of my clients. But I had a light bulb moment in June last year when I realised I could combine the coaching element with my wealth of experience in TV and video production.

That and the fact that video is the perfect medium for Self Expression, which is at the core of everything I do and want to encourage in women entrepreneurs.

I provide video consultations, video critiques, bespoke motion graphics and video editing. My clients are predominantly women entrepreneurs in the service industry.

Oh and McTofu is my nickname, what with being Scottish and Vegan 🙂 And I thought it would be a really cool name for my biz!

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I love that you are completely Genna 24/7 (jokes, vaginas, red lipstick, potty mouth) what advice do you have for women just starting out in their online businesses who are hesitant to put their “real” selves out for everyone to see?

Ha! Yes, the potty mouth, you got me 🙂 Being yourself is the one true constant. It’s easy, effortless and you’ll feel a whole lot comfortable being you and being authentic in your business.

I’d say the best way to do this is to be really clear and upfront from the get go as to who you are, what you stand for and what it is people can expect from you. Be explicit about this on your About page, your Twitter Bio, create a free manifesto download if you wish and make sure that everything you write or create is consistent with who you are. If it is the ‘real’ you, then it won’t be hard work and we like things that are not ‘hard work’

I know some business women want to keep a strict delineation from their ‘true’ selves and their ‘business’ selves but DO. NOT. DO. THIS. It’s boring. It’s duplicitous. And it could do more damage than you think. For serious.

Be you. It’s delicious, it’s easy and it will help weed out the peeps that are NOT for you.

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You have a Fine Art degree and all your videos are very creative and fun. What other ways do you express yourself creatively?

Writing, photography, drawing vaginas [art portfolio here]. I also love writing posts for my website as much as I enjoy the video production process. Does banter on twitter count? If so, I LOVE that. As I’m a natural chatterbox, my creativity tends to always come through in my conversations and connection with other people. Instagram is another small addiction when I’m not on Twitter!

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When did you first discover the power of video?

Well, I’ve been in television broadcasting for 11 years, am an avid film fan and have always been fascinated by the moving image, so I guess you could say all my life. I remember watching films like the Wizard of Oz when I was a kid and being completely transfixed, wanting to be on screen myself. The ability to actually record and produce my own stuff came a little later, probably about 13yrs ago now when I did a TV production course at college [after my Art degree]. And as I’m a bit of a show off, being on screen is my drug of choice…

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For women entrepreneurs who are just getting started creating their own videos there are so many questions. Before they go out and start hiring videographers or buying software and cameras, what’s the first question they should ask themselves?

The first question should always be: do I have the time to dedicate to this? Recording and editing can be very time consuming and so women entrepreneurs should really ask ‘If I dedicate this time, what can I expect to get back in return?’ This means really looking at what you will be providing in each video, what do you want your audience to take away? How will it benefit them?

If you know that a video will be a far better way of communicating some learning or a concept with your audience, then go for it. Beware of doing video for video’s sake and be realistic, if it’s going to take too much time, look to hiring a videographer or even just a freelance camera operator or video editor. Having the help in just one part of the process can make all the difference.

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Pricing for shooting, editing, processing videos, etc. range widely. What’s your advice for women on how to evaluate and compare the work and offerings of different video consultants for where they are in their video journey?

I did a comprehensive blog post about this, you can go and have a read here. My advice would be to not only to get quotes on a videographer, that will do the shoot and edit for you but to also look into someone who could either just do the shoot or the edit for you. My advice if looking for either of these freelancers, is to look local, you’ll probably get far better rates and you don’t have to worry about trying to upload large video files to someone half-way around the world.

I also have a very handy little guide called “SHINE on SCREEN: Your guide to creating great video on your own” which covers all the questions and tutorials you should need to produce video yourself.

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What are your favorite video projects to do?

Doing silly, comedy videos of my own. And working with women who are brimming with excitement about their business and who bring that passion to the screen.

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What’s next for you and your business?

I’m looking to how I can build on my recent ebook guide, evolving that into a web based workshop for a small group of women [between 6-10 at a time] and ultimately doing large events that take women entrepreneurs through the training, support and inspiration they need to leverage video & their Self Expression in their businesses. I’m hoping to launch the first SHINE on SCREEN – Web Workshop in August, look out for it!

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You’ve recently become an aunt to little Miss Kitten McTofu, I know you’ll be a big supporting of her throughout her life. Who in your personal life is/are your biggest supporter(s) and what does this support allow you to do?

Aaaaw Kitten McTofu, yes, she is an absolute little cutie [real name Leah, Kitten is just my nickname for her]. Love her. I’d say that my Mum, Mama McTofu, has been my biggest and most consistent supporter. I know that’s kinda part of the remit but she really has been the one woman who has most inspired me to be the strongest, most fulfilled, most self expressed woman I can be. Love her for that. Also I have an insanely supportive network of close friends and online friends. Can’t really ask for more.

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What did 7 year old Genna say she wanted to be when she grew up?

A stripper. Seriously!! My Mum let me watch the film ‘Gypsy’ about the gorgeous burlesque star Gypsy Rose Lee, when I was that age and I WANTED to be her so bad. So, yes, not the perspex behooved, sequined g-string gal writhing around a greased pole but rather the corset & feathered glamour of the Burlesque star. I guess it’s still stripping either way you look at it but I’m pleased to say [and those that possess a pair of eyes are too] that this figure + sequins + removing of clothing aint something that is gonna happen soon. I’ll stick to remaining fully clothed and being silly on camera. The world will be a better place for it 🙂

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Genna (or McTofu, as her pals say) believes video is the perfect platform for self expression and THE best tool for engaging your viewers, clients and customers. She makes funny, entertaining and informative video content for her own business and is a consultant and producer for small business owners who need video production, motion graphics and/or editing skills. She has 10 years experience in Post Production for television broadcasting, making programs for broadcasters across the world including the biggest and most well known British Broadcaster. You can find Genna on her website, Twitter: @gennamcwhinnie or @McTofuMedia, and Facebook: Genna McWhinnie.

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I’m so happy to have Kimberly Riggins as the Women Branching Out interviewee today.

Kimberly is a body image expert and creator of The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked, a movement that challenges women all across the world to accept and love themselves just as they are. She’s the author of the book “Love Your Naked Ass.” You can visit www.eatchocolatenaked.com to receive her free Mirror Mantra and Body Love Kit.

Q: Tell us about The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked. Who do you love to help, and why?

The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked is actually a metaphor. Although I do enjoy eating chocolate in the buff and often recommend this to my readers and clients because of the profound effect it has on your life, this movement is really about reigniting your senses, dropping your self-defeating behaviors and learning to accept and love yourself for who you are right NOW.

I wholeheartedly believe the path to happiness and pleasure starts with loving yourself from the inside out. I have learned, through my own personal journey, that in order to live a fulfilling life, you MUST let go of the guilt, shame and hang-ups you have around your body, food and relationships and most importantly you have to practice being present every single day.

Obviously, I am completely inspired to help women because I know what it feels like to harbor low self-esteem, crazy body image issues and dull, lifeless relationships. On the flip side, I also know what it takes to shift that completely around and fall madly in love with yourself and your life regardless if you’ve reached your “destination.”

The truth is, as Ralph Waldo Emerson eloquently said, “Life is a journey, not a destination.”

Q: You recently published your first book, Love Your Naked Ass, 80 Gentle Ways to Transform Your Life, Restore Your Serenity & Rediscover Happiness. Can you share one of your tips from the book with us?

Wow. I have so many tips I would love to share. In fact, if anyone would like to get a taste of Love Your Naked Ass, you can get your hands on a FREE excerpt by going here.

One of my favorite tips that I share in my book that has absolutely changed the course of my own life involves learning to become your very own best friend.

I think it’s imperative that you learn everything about yourself first before venturing into a relationship. Become your own best friend and learn to love being in your own company before inviting anyone else in.

Spend one on one time getting to know YOU. What are your likes, dislikes, personal and professional boundaries, values? What makes you angry, excited, and happy? What turns you on? Turns you off? What gives you pleasure? Brings you joy?

I know this may sound strange but if you can’t meet your own needs and wants, and you do not have clear boundaries, you will never find true happiness. You will always be looking for others to provide you with that “missing piece” when truthfully; it’s not their job. It’s yours!

So how do you become your own best friend? The fastest, most effective to do this is to schedule what I call, “ME Dates.”

A “Me Date” is when you take yourself out and participate in something enjoyable without having to rely on another to keep you company.

Take yourself out to that 5-star restaurant you have been dying to try, take in that movie you desperately have been yearning to see, go to that little coffee shop and enjoy a latte (guilt free) while devouring your favorite book or magazine, hike in the park while inhaling nature, or grab your bike and helmet and hit the trails.

Honestly, it’s irrelevant what you choose to do. The point is to get to know yourself, like you would your best friend. Love her. Talk to her. And most importantly, learn to have to fun with her.

Q: Tell us about the process of writing and publishing your book. What do you wish you’d know when you started? What did you learn about yourself in the process?

Writing and publishing a book is definitely an adventure. There are so many different avenues you can take to get your work into print.

There are also so many questions you have to ask yourself before you take on this kind of endeavor.

Why are you writing this? Who are you writing this for? What is your goal? Do you want the sole rights to your book? Do you want to self-publish or look for a publishing house? Do you want an agent? An editor? A designer? Help with formatting? Do you want it in hardback? Paperback? Kindle? Do you have a time frame in mind? How will you market it? Who will you market it to? The list questions could go on and on.

I honestly didn’t have any expectations going into this. I knew there would be a huge learning curve and I was up for challenge. I actually found the whole process fascinating.

This entire experience taught me that I have the power to do anything. If there is a will, there is always a way.

Q: You have an ongoing interview series with so many awesome women called “Love Your Naked Ass Warrior Series.” What have you learned from those interviews?

The Love Your Naked Ass Warrior Series features fierce female luminaries who dare to defy the social norm in unconventional ways in order to inspire and empower the world one woman at a time.

Honestly, the series has exceeded my own expectations. Initially, my goal was to provide content for my readers, as well as to help these amazing women spread their message. But it has definitely morphed into so much more…

Listening to their stories, reading their books, taking some of their programs has helped me figure out who I want to be and has definitely played a part in how I show up in the world.

Q: Who are your business role models? and why?

My business role models are women entrepreneurs who run their business around their children. I am in awe what they can accomplish while raising a family. They inspire me and give me the strength to keep moving forward. (I currently am building my business around a 3 year old…not an easy feat.)

Q: As a mom how do you think women can best model self-acceptance and healthy body images for their daughters (and sons)?

Learning to truly love yourself is the best gift and lesson you can give/teach your children. Your children watch your every move so be conscious how you treat yourself.

Q: When you are eating chocolate naked (or not), what are your favorites?

Lately I have been devouring homemade chocolate. Yes, I make my own.

The last batch consisted of raw coconut butter, raw cacao powder, pure maple syrup, dash of sea salt, hemp seeds, raw golden berries and chopped hazelnuts.

If I am buying chocolate, my current favorites include Sweet Riot, Dagoba, Endangered Species, NewTree, Good Cacao Superfood Chocolate, and Vosges.

Kimberly Riggins is a body image expert, negative self-talk warrior and a transformational catalyst who inspires women to let go of their body hang-ups and kick their inner critical bitch to the curb. She is the author of the book, “Love Your Naked Ass” and the creator of The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked, a movement that challenges women all across the world to accept and love themselves just as they are. Her primary mission: To have each and every woman she meets be able to look at themselves in the mirror and smile back at what they see. You can find her on Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest.

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