Pep Talk

When I woke up this morning my first thought was, “I need a pep talk.” Then, “I need a personal cheerleader.” And finally, “I need a whole cheerleading squad.”

I imagined a whole varsity squad with puffy hairsprayed bangs and ponytails, dressed in black and gold (Go Tigers!) filling my office with personalized cheers:

“Go, Christie! Go, Go, Go, Christie!”

and….

“Design! Design! Christie, You Design So Fine! Go, Christie! Yeah! Go, Christie!”

Ready? O.K.

Then I remembered I do have a personal cheerleading squad.

While they don’t show up in my office to shake their pompoms and fire me up every morning, they are the reason why this year’s roller coaster mix of ups and downs, with a few extra whips and turns and highs and lows thrown in for good measure, doesn’t feel as threatening to me as it has in the past.

Last year I was feeling completely alone in my business. I wasn’t reaching out to meet new people. I was afraid to tweet. I had no confidence in my ability to make the money my family needed to support itself.

Heck, I didn’t even have a professional website (even though I’d designed and written professional sites for other people). I wasn’t sure I even wanted to be a designer anymore.

Rich, Happy and Hot

I was looking around trying to find some way to get myself out of my shell and interacting with the world and I found Rich, Happy and Hot B-school, an online business coaching class, with Marie Forleo and Laura Roeder. I just had a hunch that that program could be a catalyst for moving toward a better version of me.

So, I pulled out my credit card and plopped down money I didn’t have and made a promise to myself that I would put my all into the class.

For two months, I interacted with other people in the class, I tweeted and I participated in conference calls. People from the class responded, encouraged me and tweeted back. All the interaction made me realize how much I love helping women create their businesses and how important it is for me to be surrounded by positive people.

Since then, I’ve been actively building a better support system for myself, a cheerleading squad of my own, by reaching out to others instead of sitting here feeling sorry for myself.

Christie’s Cheer Squad

My squad is a mix of new and old. I have a husband who always listens to me talk business and answers all my very stupid tech questions. Two girls who know the names of my favorite clients and are now old enough to understand why they need to be quieter when Mom’s on the phone. I have wonderful new clients who see me better than I see myself and encourage me to grow my business.

I have online friends I’ve made by simply reaching out to say “hi!” Friends like Jenn, Liz and Lisa who are making their own marks on the world. I have a wonderful coach  (@sallyhopesays) who gave me tools to deal with that negative voice in my head and encouraged me to set big, big business goals and to go for them.

I know that I can keep building my support system and finding cheerleaders. So, what about you? Who do you talk to when you need a pep talk? Who tells you you’re on the right (or wrong) track? Who encourages you to pick yourself up and keep trying?

Build Your Cheer Squad

If you don’t have support, get out there and build your support system. It won’t build itself.

How to do it:

  1. take a class
  2. comment on a your favorite blog
  3. start a conversation and tell someone what you do
  4. tweet  at someone you admire
  5. hire a coach

Don’t let fear stop you. There are people out there who will get you and support you and cheer you on.

Having trouble? Send me a tweet. I’ll tweet back and who knows I might just be the cheerleader you’ve been looking for.

11 Responses to Pep Talk

  1. Ann McMahon January 12, 2011 at 4:34 pm #

    gimme a c
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    gooooo Christie!

    • christie January 13, 2011 at 11:21 am #

      Thanks Ann – I also have many other cheerleaders that I didn’t mention — like you! Thanks for always being supportive. It’s been great getting to know you.

  2. Jenn Morgan January 19, 2011 at 4:09 pm #

    Ahh!! I heart Christie 🙂 What an amazing surprise! You totally made my day girl! And, can I please be #1 on the team Christie t-shirt sign up?

    Christie is one of the best listeners I’ve ever met. She draws out what you are trying to communicate in such a fun and nurturing way, you’ll just fall in love with the process of working with her.

    • christie January 25, 2011 at 1:31 pm #

      Thank you, Jenn! And yes team Christie shirts will be forthcoming 🙂

  3. Teresa Warner January 25, 2011 at 1:19 pm #

    Christie, my day today was in the crapper by 9:00…and I hadn’t even started my very full day of work yet! A friend of mine shared your blog post and it made my day! Lest we not forget our cheerleaders!!! Thank you so much! I really needed this today! Keep the faith, girl!

    • christie January 25, 2011 at 1:30 pm #

      So glad I could help cheer you up Teresa! Go git ’em girl! And be sure to comment back with your website when it’s up. I’d love to come check out what you’re up to!

  4. Laura Roeder January 26, 2011 at 1:20 am #

    Thrilled to read that you formed such a strong community and stayed in touch with your b-school sistas!

    • christie January 26, 2011 at 7:51 am #

      Thanks Laura, it’s a great testament to the power of b-school and you & Marie, of course.

  5. Emma January 27, 2011 at 6:35 pm #

    Love your talent and savvyness, would love to with you this year. Feb 7th is getting close….

    • christie January 27, 2011 at 6:44 pm #

      Thank you so much Emma! Get in touch anytime. I’m a bit envious of your beachy location, so I’ll probably ask you to hold the phone up to the ocean for me.

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